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“My girlfriend gives the best head ever, and she wants me to return the favour…HELP” – Darren via email.

Auntie V will do her best.

Ok so oral sex can be one of the most amazing sexual pleasures ever that you can give your lady. And if she’s more than satisfied she’ll return the favour, again and again. So if you’re gonna go down on her, don’t just do it — do it right.

You can’t just give her a quick lick and expect a mind blowing orgasm, and then for her to drop to her knees to thank you, it just doesn’t work like that. If you want her to do her job, you’re gonna have to work to.

While a bit of skill is needed, being aware of her mood and sensations is more important than any amount of tongue strength.

Unlike ye men, us woman don’t have oral sex on the brain 24/7 so make sure she’s in the mood for it before starting anything.

Ease into things, she’s not gonna appreciate you yanking her knickers off and just going to town. The vagina is a very sensitive area, so pay attention to her other body parts and slowly make your way down. When you get there don’t be in a hurry, start out slowly and gradually pick up some speed.

Of course oral sex is intimate, but it becomes so much more intimate when there’s lots of physical connection between you. Don’t just sit there licking, kiss and stroke her thighs, and hold her around her legs. Make sure she’s enjoying herself, and I don’t mean stopping and giving her a “is dat alrigh luv?” listen to her moans and groans, look at her body language, that’ll turn you on too.

Pay attention cause every woman has their own personal preferences when it comes to oral sex. As I said listen to her sounds, and watch her body move as you try different things. She may like lapping and when you insert your tongue, but she could go wild when you use your fingers as well as your tongue. Try lots of different things and see what gets her going, but if you’re trying something new, be gentle at first, if you can sense she doesn’t like something, then stop.

I can’t tell you to lick this way or that way cause every woman is different, you’ll need to find that out yourself. But to make it a great experience, you both need to be feeling it.Make sure she’s comfortable. Don’t act like you’re doing her a favour, if you do your job right, you’ll reap the rewards. Don’t act all disgusted either, the vagina is an amazing thing, you need to appreciate it and think of what it has done for you and what it will do for you.

Most of all, have fun.

V.